GIVING UP: Living a life of Defeated

I wanna start by sharing one of the best dialogues of any movies i have ever seen or heard. This was said by none other than Rocky Balboa

"Let me tell you something you already know.The world ain’t all sunshine and rainbows. It’s a very mean and nasty place, and I don’t care how tough you are, it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain’t about how hard you hit, it’s about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward. How much you can take and keep moving forward."
- Rocky Balboa

Its pretty interesting to see people who curse their life for not giving them what they wanted. Its pretty funny though how people say"My life Sucks" etc. I would like to ask them- what did you do to that gives you the right to curse your life?.

                                                       My first reaction to people like this would be how much did you try? what did you do to change your life? Its pretty easy to sit back and not trying and just cursing life. Some of us are used to get things easily & that is the reason a lot of us have forgot the meaning of the word 'Try'.

We tend to forget that for everything we need in life we need to give something back. Nothing is free in this world or universe. Giving Up is the easiest way to say I QUIT. I  am just curious to know why do people Quit. If they give up on something that means either they didn't want that so much or they must have found a replacement for it which is easier to get. But I just wanna ask everyone. You can replace things by things but Can you replace people in life. I see and hear so many people giving up on life or Love. I wanna ask you Why. Isn't it worth to fight for it.?

Letting it go or saying it wasn't worth it is just like the story of the Fox who thought that the grapes were Sour just because he couldn't taste it. Cmon people we have just one life and HE made us the Ruler of it then why should we compromise. If I am the King of my life then I cannot give up on anything without a fight.

                                                                               I believe life throws us lots of troubles to test our strength, to test our tenacity. The people who raise themselves during this period are the one who achieves success in life. There are two kinds of people. 

1. Who talk the talk.
2. Who walk the talk.

The first type are more common where people believe they could have done everything if they tried but they just 'DIDN'T TRY'. The second type are the one who talk less and let their actions speak. If we all could just try doing things rather than saying it we all could have changed the world.

                                    We sit at home watching television thinking about how my country is going down but what do we do about it, NOTHING, because That's not my business. If that's not our business then i don't think we have the right to speak about it or blame people for running our country to ruins. Its simply because we People the citizens DON'T TRY. We don't try to change the way we live. If we are in a shit-hole we will stick to it rather than Standing Up and bring a change in it. Its always easy to complain, but very difficult to act upon it.

I have seen people Fight with Cancer to get their life back and they Win because they never gave-up. They always believed they will win. Believing in the fact that you will win is half the Battle won even before you start a fight and the opposite if you don't believe you will win.

                                                                                               I see people giving-up on important things in life without a fight and that's so disheartening. People give up on Love for reasons like sudden character changes, distance, lack of time etc. I mean if that's the reason to then to be honest i don't believe you were in love in the first place. I heard people saying in true love that Love is one force that can make anything happen in your life.. So if there's a problem in your love life then let Love sort it out. I mean if you truly love someone then how the hell can you Give up on him or her.

 To all the people in Love, make your loved one feel extra special so that you will make it really hard for them to leave you. And never Give Up on Love. Let Love take its Own course and always believe in it. Only then will it Flow back to you.

Life is full of opportunities but its not always so easy to get them. Our biggest Fear is Fear of Failure. The only thing we don't realize is that, Failure teaches us not to FAIL again. If we can accept our failures then I am sure we can achieve anything in life.

Last but not the Least. My friends Don't give up on life so easily, Fight for it because my friends believe me at the End IT's WORTH IT.

PS: To all my friends and readers of my Blog I wish you a beautiful and a wonderful New Year. I wish each and everyone of You fulfill all your dreams and keep building your staircase to Success. Have fun and God Bless You All. And Remember :

LET There BE ONE ALMIGHTY and let HIM be GOOD

When we talk about our God how do we see Him, we see HIM as one who is present everywhere ,who is always keeping an eye on us and who has the POWER to solve every problem in this world . But if we ask people have You seen HIM? Well the natural answer would be NO.

 

We have been following the teachings that had been taught to us by our Parents, schools and other institutions.
There are Billions of people around the world among whom some believe in HIM and some don't, but at the end we have to acknowledge the fact the religion and believe for HIM is the one thing that is binding people together.

The one thing that really hurts me is the fact when people start taking religion and commercializing it for their own gain. Why is there fights for religion, why do people compare between religions? Do we have an answer for all this questions.

I am born in an traditional Hindu family and i did my 12 years of schooling in a catholic school which has given me the little bit knowledge of both the religions.. I have many friends who belong to Islamic religion, Sikh and Buddhist. When we are together, we never feel we are different. I don't see them different because i have spent half of life with them. They have the same skin color as i do, same hair color as I do etc...
 What i don't realize is that when HE doesn't want to distinguish between us, then why are we people creating a barrier between religions. I am not a scholar to talk about different religions and their teachings but i will limit my talks to just one topic that is HIM . We can call HIM by any name, whether be SHIVA, JESUS, BUDDHA, ALLAH etc, at the end of the day if we compare each of their studies, we will realize the fact that every one of them wanted to teach us one thing and that is compassion and kindness towards others.

If I talk about myself I have never believed in Idol worship but that doesn't mean i don't believe in HIM, I do believe in HIM immensely. But i don't categorize HIM. For me HE is one and HE is everywhere. If a person is truly devotional they will understand what i mean to say. Visit a temple or a Church or a Gurdwara or Mosque, you will find the same feeling in all.. You will find peace. Peace of mind and Soul. You will feel that some one is calming you down. This my friend comes to you irrespective of whether you belong to that religion or not.
What does that shows?
It shows that HE doesn't distinguish between us. He treats us the same way as he treats other people.
If the CREATOR of the whole universe doesn't treat us differently then who gave us the right to treat each other differently. HE is always there with everyone, its just that we call HIM differently, but the purpose of calling HIM is always the same. We all call HIM when we need him.

If we all realize this small fact then there won't be so much fights in the names of religion. HE created this Universe for his ultimate creations, he created this for Us  human being, but we divided the world for our own benefits, if that wasn't enough we thought of dividing our-self and hence came religions.
 I will never stop anyone from following their own religions or beliefs, but my friend remember no religion is big or small. This is one fact that we should all understand. Love your religion but respect all religions. That shows the kind of devoted person you are. Love HIM and not his FORMS and maybe that's one of the ways to reach HIM.

Friendship : The Boon Of Life

A friend well, hard to define a friend but he must be the person who is always there to support you and help you at times when everyone else leaves you and to love you without any purpose..They are the people who are not linked to us Biologically but still somehow you feel that you know them forever.

Photographed by Tridev, Model: Vinu Vincillas and Rupesh Kumar

Nowadays people stay away from their family either due to work or due to their studies, feel the need of friends more than ever.. They are the one who care for you always and not when you need it.

Its a wonderful way to understand who are good friends for you when they know what you are thinking without you even saying a word.

A friend can be anyone...from a guy to a girl who understands you like no-one else can. People often ask how can we know whom to trust or whom not...well its easy, we can't trust anyone. Trust is one thing which can never be given but it is earned, and you will always find a handful of people who will earn your trust and respect but the numbers would be not be a lot. I will say, its always better to have a small group of friend who are true and honest to each other than a large group where most of them don't even know each other well.

Photographed by Vinu : Model: Tridev and Rupesh Kumar

                 A true friend will never say things that you want to hear but they will always say the things that you need to hear. A person with whom you never have to think what you should talk about is what we call a FRIEND.

I have always believed that the Journey of life would be really empty if we don't have people around us to share your moments. In every phase of life our meet new friends from school to college to work. All of them have their own special place in our life. The only thing is that when we move on in life we shouldn't forget our old friend.
There's this beautiful quote which says " Make new friends but don't forget the old because new friends are like Silver but Old friends are Gold". So cherish the moments you get with your friends because remember your life is the way it is because of the presence of these special people in your life.

No Matter how long the road maybe i will always be your eyes to show you the way. Photographed by Vinu. Model : Tridev and Rupesh Kumar

                                       "Life without Friend and Love is always an Incomplete Story"

Nature : The Best Getaway

The First ray of hope.. Photographed by Tridev

Never had I thought that Nature can give you so much of peace and calmness.
               After the hectic week in office, a trip to nature is just what is needed to release you from your stress. The colors and sounds of nature overshadows the crowd and the noises of the city.
                Over plagued by pollution and irresponsible behavior of people including us has made it more harder to have a healthy life. Life choking traffics, ear deafening horns of cars and of course the emission of fuel gas from the vehicles are the main reason today's generation are plagued by diseases which were known to people as old age diseases like Blood Pressure, Diabetes and others.

The Road to Eternel Bliss. Photographed by Tridev

The best getaway from all this would be a trip to nature. I know it might sound boring for some people because they still haven't been to any such place. A morning trip to any garden or sanctuary  will refresh not only your body and mind but it would refresh your soul.

I can't get you to your destination, it depends on you where you want to go... Photographed by Tridev

There are a lot of things that nature teaches us, if we are willing to learn from it. For Example A tree teaches to have patience and perseverance, a small butterfly teaches us that beauty lies in simplicity. Nature tells us to live life without looking back.....

I stand here to give u Hope, that whatever happens i will always be there to protect you. Photographed by Tridev

Lets try to save this beautiful nature from all the negative affects of Evolution of human beings. We should always remember like us Nature has its own life, if we don't take care one day it will stop caring for us.
                                                   Lets try to keep our nature clean so that we get better places to spend some peaceful time. Lets plant some trees so that we get clean air to breathe and shade to protect us from the heat and sun. We all know the more trees we have, the more chances we have of getting rains.   
                                             Nature is sacrificing so much for us...Isn't it the time now for us to sacrifice something for it, after all we all like to live in a clean and dirt free home. So lets join hands to keep our homes cleans wherever or whichever part of the world we belong to, It just take an effort from one individual to change the thoughts of the whole society. Lets be that individual, lets take the first step and be sure others will follow. Always remember " If you want to be a Leader, you should know how to Lead first."

Beauty Lies in simplicity. Photographed by Tridev

Following the Heart

"Even if i am not on my strongest but i still am not ready to give up without a fight" Photographed by Tridev

A lot of times we find our self in situations where we can't decide what to do. My suggestions would be just follow your heart it will lead you to the right direction.
                                                                              Its scientifically proved that thinking from your heart means that you are following your sub-conscious mind which consists of 95% of our brain. But as human being we tend to be apprehensive to do things we haven't done before or which we are not sure of. As i mentioned in my previous Blog ,we should take some risks in life to get the desired output since you cannot always play safe and wait for some magic to happen. Dear friends, remember the magic is inside you, you just need to see it.
                          I read a beautiful quote in one of the websites which says" Its not the number of breathes you take in a moment in life but the number of moments that takes your breathes away"  this shows how you have lived your life.
                            Just do what you want and don't wait for others to tell you what to do. Remember this beautiful life was gifted to you so that you can live it to the fullest, don't lets others rule your life. There's always that one thing that you long to do, one thing you wanna say to a particular person, one thing that you wanna eat, My friend...don't stop yourself "Just DO It" You just got one life so use it to the fullest, so that when you die, you will not be sad that you are dieing but you will be happy that you lived this life without any regrets.

I might be in the wrong company but i know how to keep my individuality. Photographed by Tridev

                                People have so many things they wanna do in life, Just start with small things and then make it large. In my case, i loved to take pictures, i loved capturing moments which tells a story. I never dreamt to have my Blog but some one suggested me that i should put my views in a forum where people can read it. I told myself "well people will laugh at me and my blog would just vanish as it started," yet i didn't give it up. Maybe not many people would read this. But at least some will. If my Blog is able to change the life of at least one person, then that would be a success for me. I followed by heart and I will always do that, because I know it might not always go my way  but still i am ready to take that chance..
                                        Be committed to what you want and be honest to what you want and i am sure if you put your heart and soul in it, you will get what you desire.

Don't loose your focus, keep faith and follow your heart. Photographed by Tridev

Breaking Away

"You can always follow the path followed by others or you can choose to make your Own." Photographed by Tridev

Why are we afraid to take a chance? What stops us from doing something that others haven't done? What scares Us?
When we can answer the above questions, I think we can solve some of the mysteries of our lives. The reason why some people get success in life and some don't is because of a simple difference between them and that is the Successful people have taken life changing risks  at least once in their life.
We should remember One thing, that is, in this life nothing is for free.. For everything you have to pay a price and you need to slog out for it.
                                                       My friends...Why follow standards, why not do something different. Why not show people that We are not like the billions of other people in this world because i believe each and every human being is unique in his/her own unique ways. Bring out that special thing from inside you and throw it to the world to notice, maybe at first you might be ridiculed but  as time goes on, the people who ridiculed you would be the one who will start  talking about you.
                                                                                    Believe my friends is a  very strong word in our life, until you believe you can do something,  you Just Can't Do it. But if you believe in Yourself You will know that however difficult some things in life maybe, but those not are not impossible to achieve. So break yourself from the chains of traditionalism and make your own mark in this world so that once you die you will not regret about how you spent your life and you will die smiling.

"I am dieing but i will die without any regrets I lived on my own terms" Photographed by Tridev Dey

                             

Life is beautiful just need an eye to look at it..

" people always see me smiling..But even i have tears" Photographed by Tridev

What is life all about....In my words...Life is all about living it. We human being spent so much time thinking about what life is that we forget how to live life...

If anyone asks me...what is that one thing you wanna do in your life...Well my answer would be "i wanna live life to the fullest"..

Everyone has happy moments and sad moments in their life...but those are just moments....It doesn't stay for long...Take each moment in your stride and keep on moving ahead... So always remember we have lot to learn about our lives...the one which people see in us is not the real us...Its the people's perception of Us..Keep discovering yourself and then you will see that you will not have regrets about how you lived your life..